At what point does the age difference become scandalous? Throw out the obvious examples as outliers.
The late Anthony Quinn was 81 when he impregnated a year-old. The late Tony Randall was 75 when he married his year-old wife. Playboy founder Hugh Heffner has several girlfriends, most of them half a century his junior. Age is what it is. For one thing, most people do not want their relationship to be the equivalent of gossip tabloid fodder among their own social circles.
A date I recently went on showed the woman to be intelligent, sweet, accomplished, and attractive. We both suspected the age difference might be significant, but avoided the topic for as long as possible.
Yet denying reality serves no purpose. She thought I was I was hoping she was in her late twenties. Five years is one thing. Even ten years one can start rationalizing. Yet 18 years is a tough one to justify. Having said that, a guy at 41 squiring a woman of 23 is far more controversial than a year-old man dating a year-old woman.
There is an unofficial rule that exists, even though nobody seems to know where it originated. This leads to some reasonable results.
A year-old should date somebody at least A year-old should stick with someone at least For somebody aged 70, the bottom limit of respectability is The problem with this is that unofficial guidelines are exactly that.
So if 40 and 27 are acceptable, one could say that 41 and 26 are close enough. Yet soon after that, the slippery slope becomes 44 and 24, which can lead to Lolita situations and other felonies.