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Dating a feminist advice for newlyweds


Popular culture can give you the feeling that dating rests entirely on ladies doing and not doing a laundry list of things in order to snag and keep a man.

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Or Never Call Back. If their immediate response is offensive or misogynistic, it's a red flag. Is he interested in feminist issues when I bring them up? And can he talk about them in ways that express curiosity and engagement and respect, instead of defensiveness, or dismissiveness, or attachment to stereotypes? If we can talk about this stuff in ways that are interesting and productive, I can work with it most of the time.

Before you scour the internet for feminist-only dating sites they apparently exist?

It works to our benefit to be flexible on this. So long as they are a feminist on some basic level whatever you determine that to bethey may be worth giving a shot. A new and not-so-shocking sociological study found that men want women to pay their share on dates, but are afraid to ask. If I want to see someone again, or if I was the one to ask someone out in the first place gasp!

The same goes for the time and energy invested in a relationship.

Or we find it fun and exciting, and therefore difficult to abandon. Playing games can appear to be the norm, and straying from them make us seem at best strange, and, at worst, psycho.

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As the Vagenda so brilliantly put it:. Playing distant games indulges this bizarre patriarchal idea that women must be ethereal, mysterious creatures. It comes from none other than the executive editor of Feministing.