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Does that even make sense? Deep down, we know when someone actually wants to be around us and deep down, we also know when we truly feel good, and when someone truly loves and cares about us. This is a sign that come hell or high water, you need to drop the illusion and get real because you want someone that no longer wants you.

After all, better to hedge your bets than to do the decent thing….

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Find out more and download. Reminds me of the whole Prince William and Kate Middelton thing — using the excuse that he is undergoing army training and has to wait is just an excuse.

And it is humilating. Oh this is a timely post. I always felt like I was waiting for something to happen. Well no more of that.

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It took me awhile to realize it really was just a stall tactic. Now Tell guy dating cant wait see him you are 18 years old, that is a different story but for people who are done with school and have a steady job etc.

I guess the question is, what do you do if you realize he has just been making excuses not to commit or whatever? Yes, I am sitting and waiting and it is so painful, but I am so hopeless and I cant help myself!!!

Alika, It is very hard for your heart to let go…I still have trouble with it even though I am no longer in the relationship, It takes time, but my self esteem is better and knowing that I stood up for myself and let him know that I am not waiting for him, am finished with him.

Even if my heart has to catch up. At least the drama of him and the relationship is gone.

It was wishful and hopeful thinking with him. I want a man that loves me enough to swim across shark infested waters just to bring me a lemonade!!! Hi Gaynor, I mean when you are in a relationship, how long do you wait for a proposal? Do you think this is something you should tell someone you are dating up front? Jean, you need to get out unless you want to waste more time.

Alika, cut Contact with him or you will waste another year with him. I know it all sounds Tell guy dating cant wait see him easy to say, been there done that, but you have to believe it will get better — but you have to remove yourself from the situation first. Exactly… in the beginning your the greatest thing since sliced bread where you are sitting back relaxing until they start to back away and all of a sudden things are going too fast.

I have learned and grown so much thank god this past year. I was reading this book and it gave a good tip. Just like when a man or woman goes for a job and needs to prove their worthy of benefits usually a 90 day period—they say woman should wait until at least that so you know he is consistent and a good man for you… thought it was a cute idea. I do think that three-months is a bit early to be discussing the marriage issue but I can say from my last relationship there were clear indicators that this guy would never settle down again.

I believe it is so important to hear what they say, and more importantly watch their actions this is a good indicator where the relationship may lead. We are mixing two different issues. If marriage is important for you then yes you should look for like minded people but I believe there are other fundamental things. He was showing me his decision or indecision by talking up a storm about love and greatness and the future, but doing nothing!

And I chose Tell guy dating cant wait see him listen to the words for a couple years instead of seeing that he had no intention of being with me in any real way.

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