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How to have a good conversation on tinder

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Creating a Tinder profile that stands out is only half the battle. Once you've curated the best photos of yourself, put something witty in your profile to help you stand out among the rest of the competition and spent some time swiping left and right, you'll still need to figure out what to say to your matches in order to land yourself a date.

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But knowing what to say to break the ice can be tough — especially when you don't have the benefit of being able to gauge her reaction in person read: Fortunately, following a few ground rules can help set you up for success and help you land more dates. Here's what you need to know about talking to girls on Tinder.

A few harsh truths about Tinder before we get started on what to do and avoid. First, female Tinder users tend to operate under the old-fashioned approach of guys How to have a good conversation on tinder the initial move.

Meaning, if you're eagerly waiting to get a message from one of your matches instead of sending one, you're likely going to continue waiting. Second, because it's on guys to message first, women on Tinder usually have a ton of messages in their inbox to peruse through per day.

So that "Hey, what's up? Playing it cool works in the real world, but when you're trying to stand out among the other matches, relationship expert David Bennett says being diligent works in your favor. Take the time to read her profile, and find something that the two of you can have a conversation about.