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Perks of hookup an army guy

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I'm 22 years old, and this is my first time being in a relationship with a man in the military. He just got back from Afghanistan and decided that he wants to be married within the next two years.

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I've heard many stories of soldiers being unfaithful, and I was wondering with him being only 21, should I be concerned? We are already nine hours apart, and I plan on moving my son and me closer to him. Will that help at all? I promised myself that would be my year to start being more open and honest with everyone who writes to me. I'm not saying I will be mean or surly, I just intend to be more candid about the situation. You said this is your first time with a military man.

I hope he is a good man, not only because you deserve a Perks of hookup an army guy man, but because you have a son that you are bringing into the relationship.

I've learned over the years that some people go crazy over a man in uniform.

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It represents power and prestige for many. They forget the man inside the uniform. They believe the uniform and rank equals character, but it doesn't. Because of this, women can leap too quickly into the relationship.

As a result, they can ignore signs that should be grabbing their attention. I would say this if you were 22 or Your age Perks of hookup an army guy matter and his age doesn't matter. Just take your time. Naturally, you want to be in close proximity to your boyfriend, but the distance will be OK for now. If he is deploying soon, just stay where you are. You have set at least a two-year marker for marriage and that's great. Use this time to get to know him and his character.

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You have time before you need to let your child get to know him. Women often involve their children too soon in a new relationship and, when it ends, it leaves their children Perks of hookup an army guy and angry. Children see their mother's excitement, and they feed off her emotions quite naturally.

However, when the bubble bursts, they feel the same sadness and disappointment too. In other words, make sure you can provide for you and your son. If I had a dollar for every woman who runs off with her military man, leaving her family, friends, employment and education behind, I would be independently wealthy. Women often move to be closer to someone in uniform. These women don't have a job, no savings account, and no education, not anything.

When the relationship goes sour, they are left feeling used and abused.

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