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How many random hookups make you a slut

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You really want to know the answer? Okay, here's a number: But that's the only number we're giving out today. After all, one person might think that ten is acceptable but eleven is downright sleazy, while another could consider ten partners a year to be pretty restrained behavior.

Where do you draw the line? And if you're toeing someone else's line, what happens when you meet someone new who has a different line?

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So do a lot of people. They just end up relying on stupid tradition -- and lying. Yep, that ole double standard is still alive and well. But buying into double standards never improved anyone's sex life. So, ultimately, you've just got to do what feels right. Oh, stop your hemming and hawing, it's true! How you feel about it -- not how your parentsnor your future partners, nor your friends feel about it -- is the measuring stick. We can't tell you what number of partners you might regret, we can only tell you the kind of sex you might regret and no, we're not talking about positions or orifices.

No one ever woke up feeling sick How many random hookups make you a slut full of regret because they surpassed some imaginary quota, but you can bet plenty of people have met the new day feeling sick and full of regret because the previous night's experience wasn't satisfying or meaningful or fun or safe or sober.

But if you like sex, are responsible with your body and the emotions of the people you're sleeping with, then who cares how many notches are on your belt? Sex in whatever form: When sex is all that, take it where and while you can get it!

Of course, sex that perfect is hard to find.

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But hey, that helps keep the numbers down if you're still hung up on the whole numbers thing. If we haven't made it perfectly clear yet, the question is more about morality than numerology.

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